$24 for 24 Giveaway Winner Announced

This last week just flew by, didn’t it? I guess that’s what happens when you work a lot and your best friend comes to visit! My best friend from home Rebekah came to visit for a couple of days–well, she came to get an apartment for when she moves here this summer, but she stayed with me so it was like she came to see me, right? We had so much fun–she took me to see Leap of Faith (with Raul Esparza) on Thursday night for my birthday and it was just incredible. It was so good and so much fun, and I was so excited to see it but sad to know that it was on its suddenly-announced closing weekend.

But the reason you’re really here is because you want to know the winner of my $24 for 24, right? Well, I did the drawing and my big winner is awkwardalley! Congratulations! I’ll message you this afternoon, so please get back to me by Thursday or I’ll have to pick a new winner.

Thanks everyone for entering, and stick around! I’m sure there will be more opportunities to win stuff soon. And if you’re ever looking for anyone to do a guest post or giveaway on your blog, email me–I love cross-posting friends!

surviving east coast spring.

Weather is a funny thing in Oklahoma. In the winter, which generally starts in late October, it stays about fifty degrees with a few bouts of serious storm weather. Then in May, you have an almost immediate shift into summer, where it’s at least eighty-five degrees but probably more like one hundred (or higher). And unless it’s a rainy summer, it stays blisteringly hot until October rolls back around, at which time it drops back down to winter temperatures. I guess Oklahoma (and Texas) never got the memo on seasons, because technically there is no spring or autumn.

However, New York seems to have been pretty good with the spring weather memo, and I’m a little embarrassed to say that I haven’t been very good at handling it. More than once I’ve gone ahead and dressed like summer, rolling my eyes at a spring jacket, and, well, I was cold. Even a low chance of rain here means that you should still take an umbrella and a rain jacket because, at some point, it’s still going to rain. And in a walking city, you definitely don’t want to be caught in that rain without an umbrella.

And after a few weeks, I’ve decided that spring probably isn’t going to go away if I ignore it. So it’s time to really go all out and dress for the season. I assume I have at least another month until it starts to really be consistently sweltering every day, so there’s plenty of time for practice.

However, a light coat isn’t always the only answer. Aside from the obvious cardigan, accessorizing is apparently the key to surviving spring. Tights and scarves, people. Tights and scarves. There are never too many good ways to tie a scarf when your main objective isn’t making sure that your neck isn’t going to get so cold that your head falls off your body. Here are a few scarves I’ve been eyeing lately:

francesca’s| anthro | gap

Though I am absolutely dying for summer to get here–I’ll always take being hot over being cold–I’m more than a little excited to put together spring outfits. There’s nothing like a new fashion challenge, right? And while I know I may be a little behind my city right now, I do live in a fashion capitol, which means that inspiration is literally around every corner.

What are your favorite spring looks? How do you like to wear your scarves?

Remember, you still have a few days to enter my $24 for 24 birthday giveaway!

“Oh, please don’t go. We’ll eat you up, we love you so.” RIP, Maurice Sendak.

But the wild things cried, “Oh please don’t go – we’ll eat you up - we love you so!”
And Max said, “No!”
The wild things roared their terrible roars and gnashed their terrible teeth and rolled their terrible eyes and showed their terrible claws but Max stepped into his private boat and waved goodbye.

When I woke up this morning and opened the Internet, I was immediately greeted with the incredibly sad news of Maurice Sendak’s passing. I know I was only one of probably millions affected by his life’s work, but every person I’ve talked to, every article or blog post I’ve read today, told me that each person was affected by his work individually, on a very intimate level. And that’s not something that happens every day. I don’t want to talk about his awards or body of work or anything sweepingly grand, because I feel like it’s more important to talk here about what he meant to me personally.

Perhaps my favorite Sendak book was Higglety Pigglety Pop!, Or, There Must Be More to Life. I can’t tell you how many memories I have of my mom and I reading it before my bedtime, laughing over Jennie’s antics and reading the voices out loud. I recently read that he wrote this book to deal with the death of his own Sealyham terrier, Jennie, which absolutely broke my heart. I have a dog who looks and acts exactly like Jennie (believe me, she would swallow a mop if she thought she could get away with it), and this story has stayed very near my heart for the last twenty-four years and I know it will be there for at least the next twenty-four. It speaks so much about how meaningful the little things are in life, and how the little things may turn out to be the big things, after all.

Maurice Sendak is one of the reasons I grew up loving to read, loving to write, loving to imagine. I’m certain he’s partially responsible for how I view the world and how I write my fiction, all because of how seriously I took his books growing up. I don’t write children’s books, but it would be a disservice to him to say that his characterizations did not influence my work.

In the language of children, I said anything I wanted. Because I don’t believe in children. I don’t believe in childhood. I don’t believe there is a demarcation. “Oh you must tell ‘em that, you must tell ‘em that”. You tell ‘em anything you want. Just tell ‘em if it’s true. If it’s true, you tell ‘em. I’ve had adult thoughts in my head. Experiences. But I’m never going to talk about that. I’m never going to write about that. Why is my needle stuck in childhood? I don’t know. I don’t know. I guess that’s where my heart is.

This is one of the most striking things about his work. Where some children’s books attempt to tell truths through incredible sugar coating, Sendak told truths as they were. Life is hard and scary sometimes, but if you’re honest with life and with yourself, you will always see it through. Yes, he masked them in fairytale and comedy, but I always remembered his books as being more serious than other books I read. Comedy entrenched in cynicism, or cynicism entrenched in comedy, one of the two, maybe both. Above all, Maurice Sendak taught me that life is hard, but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t worth it and that it isn’t also wonderful.

As a quick sidebar, that’s one of the reasons I thought the 2009 film adaptation of WTWTA was flawless. I know it wasn’t well-received, but I’ve never been able to figure out why, because it perfectly encapsulated the isolation of childhood (especially as an only child). Every day, even as adults, we face our own Wild Things, the monsters we don’t understand and don’t know how to handle, and sometimes we fail and sometimes it’s hard. Sometimes other people move at different paces and don’t do what we want and a million other things, but we will always come out the other side of it. The characterization in this movie was perfect, and if you haven’t seen it, you should.

Sendak was a wry, cynical man, but a beloved genius as well. His work showed a belief in honesty above all, and for that alone, I have the utmost respect for him. He had strong opinions about a lot of things and gave many really, truly wonderful interviews. All of his interviews with NPR are available here, and Fresh Air has been reworked today as a tribute to him, so please tune in. Also, if you haven’t watched the interview he gave with Stephen Colbert earlier this year, please do so immediately.

One thing I know for sure is that when I read that he had died, I started crying and have been vaguely in tears since. I’ve teared up several times while writing this post. Maurice Sendak was a large part of my childhood, as I know he was for so many others, and the fact that he has affected so many lives over the last eighty-something years really speaks to how truly great he was. Never anything less than completely honest, his statement on death is lovely, and I wish him all the best.

I have nothing now but praise for my life. I’m not unhappy. I cry a lot because I miss people. They die and I can’t stop them. They leave me and I love them more. … What I dread is the isolation. … There are so many beautiful things in the world which I will have to leave when I die, but I’m ready, I’m ready, I’m ready.

Rest in peace, Mr. Sendak, and thank you for everything you’ve given me.

Birthday Giveaway: $24 for 24

Did you ever get cash for your birthday growing up? You know, the kind of gift where you get exactly as many dollars as years you are old? I used to, but magically that seemed to stop after 21 and I started getting giftcards or household items – but as I am trying to say I’m an adult without feeling like an impostor, I think I prefer the latter now.

It’s my birthday, guys! That’s right – I’m 24 today. I felt like I was still scraping by as a fresh-faced college graduate at 23, but at 24 I think I have to accept that I’m a real adult today. Or, at least, I’m trying to be one.

When I was growing up, I always used to think that there’s no way I would make it to being an adult. Not that I thought I was going to die or anything, but that I simply couldn’t put it in my brain that I was going to be living on my own, working at least one Real Job, and making my way in the world. I still can’t believe it most of the time, even though I’m literally living that now. Every day is a surprise to me that I’ve made it this far, and I’ll take this moment to pat myself on the back. You should, too, because every new day is a day you didn’t expect and a day that you should be proud of.

Anyway, what I’m saying here is that while I’m out celebrating this wonderful day, you should be celebrating me, too. I mean, what’s a birthday if not a day that you get to celebrate yourself? I never said this wasn’t a narcissism blog, but I’m really putting it out there today.

In celebration of me, I’m giving away a $24 virtual giftcard to my Etsy store!

Each of these nets you one entry:

  • Comment here!
  • Tweet about this (and be sure to mention me @baileymichelle so I see it)
  • Post about it on your blog and link me to the post here
  • Buy something from my Etsy store within the giveaway time frame

All entries will be compiled into a list and a winner picked via Random.org. Open to US/Canada only (sorry!).

So what are you waiting for? You have until Saturday, May 12th, to enter, and the winner will be announced on my blog on Sunday the 13th. Do it to it, friends!

glamorous brooklyn living.

You know how people say that living in New York City is like living in a bubble? I think they say the same thing about LA. Growing up in the midwest, I thought that was ridiculous. I mean, how could one city be the center of its citizens’ lives? How could people think they never needed to travel outside this city?

But here’s the thing: It happens. Very, very easily. With the giant melding of cultures and subcultures here in the city, really the only reason I have to ever leave is to see people who don’t live here (though most of the time the visitors come to me). I’ll head back to Oklahoma sometime this summer or fall, but other than that, I can find pretty much whatever I need within forty-five minutes of my apartment. Literally anything.

People also say that you can walk from one street to another and be immersed into a completely new culture. This is also true. I work part time in SoHo, but I take the train to Canal Street, famously known for being a major tourist trap and the final destination for knock-off designer goods. Why? Because I get off on Canal Street, walk three or four blocks, and I’m suddenly in one of the most chic areas of New York, the final destination for legit designer goods.

The little mustache on this map to the left indicates the general vicinity in which I live, which, as you can see, is in Brooklyn. However, for those of you not familiar with NYC, Brooklyn is a borough of the city – as is Manhattan. Most tourists don’t come out to Brooklyn because it seems “too far” outside of Manhattan, but it really is only 20-30 minutes by train into Midtown. A pretty comparable commute, right?

If you know anything about Brooklyn, it’s probably that it’s where those hipsters reside, which isn’t exactly untrue. However, Brooklyn has a huge and wonderful culture of its own, and I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else. I’m not saying that it’s better to live in any one borough, but a borough is definitely a point of pride to any New York resident. On my days off, I don’t go into Manhattan, simply because there’s no reason to.

 

I don’t dislike Manhattan. Every second is a new opportunity here, that much is true. Everywhere you turn, there’s a new person and a new experience (good or bad) waiting to happen. But the same thing is true in Brooklyn, except there are far fewer tourists and, while things aren’t exactly slower paced, they aren’t always running at the breakneck speed that Manhattan is. Like, for example, I would generally feel safe riding a bike in Brooklyn, where the thought of cycling in Manhattan sends me into maniacal laughter.

I’d be doing a huge disservice, too, if I didn’t mention Queens as another of the five boroughs that I enjoy a lot. I haven’t spent as much time there as I’d like, but every time I go I have a great time. Plus, I really live right on the edge between Brooklyn and Queens, so occasionally I cross over for different shopping type things.

It’s a weird place to be. Sometimes when I’m in Brooklyn I forget that I’m in New York City proper still, just because of how different it is. But then again, I can see the Empire State Building from my bedroom window, and I look at it first thing in the morning and last thing before I fall asleep at night. Every day I feel so incredibly blessed that I can live in a city where I can experience literally every culture within minutes of each other, if I so desire, and that this is a bubble that I’m okay with living in. New York can be isolating, it’s true, but I also don’t think there’s another place that gets me quite like this city does. Maybe I’m just another twenty-something statistic here, but you know, that means I’m really not alone. Sometimes it’s hard, but it’s always worth it.

This is the briefest of blogs about New York. I mean, there’s no way to explain it in one post. This is going to be a series of sorts, an unofficial one in which I talk about things in New York. I guess that’s what this blog is generally about, right? Vague enough for you? But there’s more to come, of course.

For now, though, sit tight and keep your eyes peeled on Sunday, which just so happens to be my twenty-fourth birthday! Big things poppin’ in these parts around then.

market day.

Okay, before we get started, I’m going to have you look at this picture of a slider from the Seoul Food truck that I  had the other day and you’re going to be jealous of how delicious it was. Seriously though. Amahzing.

But now, on to the market! Overall, I had a really great time and met a couple of really great people. I did pretty well for myself, too.

Here are a few pictures of my booth – I kind of scrambled to get things together at the last minute, but I still think it looked pretty good. And because it wouldn’t be a craft post without me plugging my Etsy, I added everything I made last week to my online store today. It’s at least thirty new items, so please click through and check it all out!

I had a great time at the Astoria Market and I plan to do some market touring around the Brooklyn and Queens area this summer, so keep your eyes peeled for when I’ll be near you. I always bring more to market than is available online at first, so being there in person is your best chance of getting something truly original.

As I mentioned above, some of this jewelry is still available online, so please go check it out! I know these pictures are kind of rough (indoors, etc), but my product photography is much better! Great prices on lots of new earrings and rings :)